Improve on Silence with These Zen Proverbs and Stories

Zen Stories or Koans are short tales designed to open the mind to new ways of thinking. They often do not follow what we would consider rational thought, but that’s the point. By removing yourself from what you would call normal or rational, you can see the world from a new perspective.

Here are a few shorter proverbs as well as some links at the end to longer stories:

Do not speak unless it improves on silence

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After enlightenment, the laundry.

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When walking, walk. When eating, eat.

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Those who know don’t tell and those who tell don’t know.

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The Story of Your Life

We all do it. Something happens and we sigh, “It’s the story of my life!”

But have you ever really thought about it? What is the story of your life? If you wrote your autobiography, what would you call it?

Erma Bombeck was the queen of catchy titles. Remember If Life is a Bowl of Cherries, What Am I Doing in the Pits? Or how about When You Look Like Your Passport Photo, It’s Time to Go Home?  And then there’s Tina Turner’s What’s Love Got To Do with It? And Lance Armstrong’s It’s Not About the Bike.

There are some real groaners out there, too. Have you seen: [Read more...]

Recorded History…or maybe Herstory

Every person, every family has a story—or stories. Why not record some of them before it’s too late? These days, small video cameras and other electronic devices make it easier than ever to both record the stories and share them with other members of the family. There are also companies such as Bookemon, that make it possible to publish a book in small quantities.

Whatever your idea for the final product, the first step is to consider who you would like to interview and enlist their cooperation.

Next, compile your list of questions. The Legacy Project offers a very extensive question list, which makes an excellent starting point. From there you may want to cut some of the questions or add some of your own. Assemble any photos or other objects that might serve as memory “triggers.”  Gather all of your equipment—including chargers and/or batteries—and make sure you know how to use it. You don’t want “technical difficulties” to keep you from getting the information you seek. [Read more...]

On Stories and Storytelling

The craft of questions, the craft of stories,

the craft of the hands—all these are the making of something,

and that something is the soul.

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Stories are medicine. I have been taken with stories since I heard my first.

They have such power; they do not require that we do, be, act anything—we need only listen.

Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Ph.D.

Women Who Run with the Wolves

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There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.

Maya Angelou

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I like narrative storytelling as being part of a tradition, a folk tradition.

Bruce Springsteen [Read more...]

Telling Stories

My grandmother was a stern country woman, an adamant—even rabid—teetotaler (I’m sure there was a story behind that, although I never heard it). Nonetheless,  she surely did enjoy her hard cider. Of course, no one ever dared to suggest just why she might be so fond of it. Believe me, that was  one lady you didn’t want to cross. My grandmother was the type who would wag a finger in the face of a little girl (like me!) and demand to know, “Just what have you been up to young lady? Now don’t you go telling me any stories…”

In her world, anything that was not precisely true was a “story.” And I got the picture early on that telling stories led to nothing but trouble.

Of course, I had stories in my childhood. There were the usual nursery rhymes and lots of great picture books. And my father—the son of this very same grandmother—was actually quite a creative storyteller. Still, in my family—as in my Anglo culture—we didn’t embrace the art of storytelling the way others did. I wish we had. Native American culture, for example, has a particularly rich and enviable storytelling tradition. [Read more...]

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